Gail Malone - Site Memorial Online

Hi Gail,

Just want to say Thank you for getting everyone to say a pray for Brigitte as you know we were able to get her into a nice home. She will be getting out of the hospital today or tomorrow and going to the other place. Just do me another favor and keep the prays coming for her. Alzimers is a really bad sickness I just pray that she will be able to enjoy this home for awhile before things go to the next stage. I know with your help up there things will work out for her.

 

I love and miss you lots and lots I just wanted to say thank you to everyone up there. I loved the flowers that Eddie planted for you I saw them on Saturday.

 

Please give everyone my love and some hugs and kisses up there.

Hi Gail,

I am just sitting here thinking about you and my Brother. You have been on my mind non-stop since yesterday. I really miss you so much I know you are watching and can hear everything I say. That is why I talk to you almost everynight. Life is just not the same without you right here. It was always so good talking to you because you always told it the way you saw it. So I always knew that anything you said you meant.You could always tell you things because you always kept it to yourself and never repeated anything to anyone no matter what it was it stayed with you. (almost like talking to a Priest ha-ha) only better because you really cared.

Well my friend now I don't have to tell you everything you can see it all ha-ha even the parts that people don't want you to know. I know that you are having a good time there with everyone. Just knowing that you went non-stop up to Heaven helps.

Please give everyone a kiss for me and please ask everyone to say an extra pray for Brigitte. I know if anyone can help from up there it will be you.

Well I better get back to work I will talk to you real soon.

Love you lots and miss you lots and lots.

I am sitting here at work thinking about you and how much everyone misses you. You are one of the most loved person that I ever knew I don't think that even you knew just how much you were loved. And now that you can see everyone all the time you can see how much you are missed.

Jillian had her Graduation on Saturday it was nice my brother came and Brian and Debbie with the three kids and Kelly. It was really nice seeing her. This Saturday is a 50 Birthday Party for Little Richie and than Sunday is Father's Day. Another sad day for everyone. This year you get to spend Fathers with a lot of Fathers please give mine a Big hug and Kiss for me. I know you would have rather been down here celebrating with Eddie and your Son's since they are all Fathers now.

I know that you will be here watching over everyone.

I know that I talk to you everyday and I can hear your answers so clearly ha-ha. I just have to say you put a lot of fun and smiles on everyone and made the party's fun. They will just never be the same until that day that we are all together again.

Just want you to know that I love you lots!

I just wanted to say hello, I have been thinking about you nonstop lately and with a full weekend of parties, I was just thinking how much I will miss you and all the laughs we had at these things. You were such a big part of what made them so much fun and you will be missed, although I know you will be there with us, its just not the same. I know your list of things to do has been pretty long lately with alot of requests from so many people. I am sure you are very busy being that extra help for everyone.

Everyone always says that everything happens for a reason but I dont think we ever really find out what the reasons are while here in this life, I hope that someday it all makes sense. For now we just all muttle through day in and day out wondering what the heck is gonna happen next in this crazy life and if we are living it the way we should.

I guess we have to do the best we can with the cards we are dealt. You are an inspiration because no one can think of you and not see that big smile on your face. You always knew how to make everyone smile and laugh and it just felt good to be around you. Not eveyone has that gift. You are truly special. I miss you more than any words can express.

Kiss everyone for me and tell them that I love and miss them all and thank mom for being around the last few weeks, I dont know why but I have felt her presence. lots of love always.

 

As Happy as Kayla is right now that her birthday is tomorrow there is still that void. I know that you would have been here today straight from work because you would have taken the day off tomorrow like you've always done for the girls. I know that you would have been with us at her first birthday party in pre-k and she would have walked you around so proud like it was show and tell. I keep checking the weather and they say sun for Saturday, well I know that you have everything to do with that, I know that in the past you always prayed and asked for nothing but sunshine for your poopahs party and this year is no different. You're just doing the asking yourself. Celebrating her 5th birthday without her special mahmaw is just not right, it's unfair and maybe one day we'll understand why. We love you soooo much and miss you tons. I know you'll be standing right by her side when she's blowing out her candles. I love you bunches and well you know how much she truly loves you, it's unlike anything I have ever seen. XOXO

Hi Gail,

Well Mother's day has come and gone. It was a tough one for everyone without you around. But all day I saw that Smiling face and that helped a lot. I know you loved the beautiful flowers everyone brought you. And I know that you were there with everyone. It is so hard to believe that you are gone from us. But I could just see you with your Mom and mine celebrating and watching over all of us. You were with a lot of my favorite people. Everyone misses you so much and although we all know you want everyone to get on with their lives. It is much easier said that done as you know.

I try to make everyday special now because I know that none of us know what is in store for us from day to day. And it helps knowing when life here is over. Life starts again by being with you and all of our loved ones. I miss and love you lots. I will talk to you real soon. Just keep watching over everyone and if there is a way of helping from up there I know you will do it.

I know that you have to be the PERFECT ANGEL up there.

Happy Mother's Day

As you know some days are better than others but the past week has been just down right bad. I still try to make sense of it all but I just can't, none of us can. People say things happen for a reason, heck even I've always said that but you leaving us makes no sense. What possible reason could there be, how are we suppose to find comfort and closure in any of this.

I cannot even begin to tell you how much I truly miss you. Your kids are right, you were an amazing woman who always gave so much of herself to make everyone else happy. You weren't my Mother but you sure treated me like one of your own and made me feel like I could come to you for anything. You were always there for me even when my own mother couldn't be. I can remember so many times where you just stepped in and did the things that a mother does for her own daughter. We've shared a lot of memories and for that I will always be grateful.

When I was pregnant with Kayla it was you that went crib shopping with us, it was you that helped plan my wonderful shower.

When Kayla was born, you were the first person that came in to see me, not my Mom.

When I needed advice or just needed to vent it was you that I called not my Mom.

When Ed and I needed some kid free time it was always you that was more than happy to give us a much needed break.

When Ed and I got married it was you that was excited to see my dress and it was you that helped plan my shower(once again) not my own mother. I remember how excited you were about your dress, you wouldn't even let me see it.

Gail I could go on and on but it's getting hard to type through the tears. I just hope you know just how grateful I am to have had you in my life. I know that we didn't always see eye to eye on things but at the end of the day none of that mattered. You were always there for me when I needed you, you were not only a friend, you were like a mother to me and I miss you more than words can describe. I know that with everything that has been happening you have been by my side I just wish more than anything that I could hear your voice right now. More than ever I need your advice and I need to hear you tell me that it'll all be OK. I would do anything for one of your tight hugs right now, the kind that just about takes your breath away. I know that one day I'll see you again but I have to tell ya that doesn't bring a lot of comfort when so many of us need you now. I know maybe it's selfish but life here without you is just plain unfair, we need you and we want you here with us.

I know tomorrow will be unbearable for your kids and I wish I could say or do something to help them through it but there are just no words to make the pain go away. My heart breaks knowing just how much they miss and love you and how hard this first Mother's day will be for them. Give them the strength that they need to get through this, maybe a sign or something so that they all know that your are there with them.

I miss you and love you bunches & bunches, keep watching over all of us especially now, you know that we need your love and strength to get us through this difficult time. All I can do is try to be understanding and patient. I will try to keep Kayla smiling in the mean time (as Kelly said) and I know you are always with her.

Happy Mother's Day Gail!!  I love you......

Hello My Friend.

Well Gabby party's are over ha-ha the one in daycare was nice and of course the one in Jeanette's yard went well I could feel your presents there. I could just see that big smile when you saw that Rosa brought Kayla. It was really nice having them there. You were missed a lot which you know as you always made sure that you brought your Grandkids and you alway kept them entertained Mae did try but it was not as good as Aunt Gail.

 

Than there was Diane's Birthday yesterday and everyone was disappointed that you were not there. And Eddie did not come as you know he said he was going to come to Gabby's and did not because he forgot that the wedding was the night before he was supposed to try to make it to Diane's on Sunday. Well I guess that did not work either.

 

I guess you were right when you said if you did not push he would not go. I think he could use a push maybe you can give him one. I will talk to you soon I will be going to the Cemetery as April 24th is when Jimmy passed away and Mother's Day is coming in a few weeks. So we will be there to bring you flowers. Then I will stop by to see my Brother and see if I can find out why he is not coming to anything?

 

Love You and miss you lots!

Hi Gail,

As you Know it is Saturday night at 11:37 PM amd I am sitting at home on my computer thinking about you. And when I look up there you are smiling and waving at me. I have been thinking about all the times we talked and laughed and cried. How worried we were about our kids and grandkids.

 

We thought we would be around at least to see them graduate High School. You always worring about my brother and instead it was you who was taken away. I know that you are watching everyone and helping move things around the way they should be.

 

We thought that the two of us would retire and spend time together we would take out grandkids out and just have fun with them. As we all know how much you loved them and how you were with them when you were here.

 

I don't remember any of my grandparents they passed away when I was very young so sometimes I remember a little something but not much. So I did not miss them. But you were such a Great Grandma that it is very differcult for the kids to deal with your being gone.

 

So give them all the help that you can to let them know that you will always be alive in there hearts forever.

 

I think that the adults also need some extra help. I know that I do from time to time. I know that you are happy where you are and making a nice place up there for everyone to be together someday.

 

I know that you can see everything that is going on down here and it has to be driving you crazy that you can not be here to help. I know that the only thing you ever wanted was for your family to always be happy. So please try to help them along a little bit more.

 

Well not it is 12:25 AM and I am getting kind of tired so I will talk to again soon.

love and miss you lots!

Good night my Friend! Kiss everyone for me!

Hi Mom,

I'm still in shock when I wake up every morning and know that I have to get through another day without you. It hurts me so bad when I see all the little crazy things that my girls do and say that would have you cracking up. I know you would go into your conatgious laugh. I miss the calls. I miss the big hugs and kisses. I miss the "How's life treatin' ya kid?" and the "Whats goin on darlin'?"  I miss when you used to sleep over. I miss when you loved to babysit.  I miss how your face used to light up when the kids would come to your house and you'd rip Cassidy out of my arms and sit on the swing with them. I miss the way you would tickle Amanda and Cassidy until they were cracking up. I could go on forever darlin. We were all so blessed to have you in our lives Mom. I know every human has to go through this in their lifetime, but most moms could'nt hold a candle to you, which makes it that much harder. I guess the more you love some one, the harder it is to move on when they are taken away. You were and are an amazing woman and I will hold you in my heart until the day I die. You are still living through your kids and we will try and make you proud. Your spirit is definitely felt and you are missed terribly. I welcome the day I get those big hugs and kisses again. Keep shining on us and give us all the strength to move on. Kiss my boys for me! I love you so much Mom!

Hi Gail,

I tried writing in the Candle part but it was just not enough space today. As I started to say there it is April already and now the nice weather will be here. Everyone will be having yard partys and Special Party's in different places. I know the party's coming up you always came too. Then of course we have Mother's Day next month and I know that is going to be the worse holiday yet since you left. I think everyone is going to need your help to get through that one. Father's Day will be hard also but Mother's Day will be worse.

 

So you are going to have to really help out down here. At least you will be spending it with your Mom and mine. I have been feeling sad about being at all the party's without you by my side. I know you are going to be there I guess it is just not the same as you being right there talking to me. I know I talk to you a lot and I always know what you would have said so that helps a little.

 

I see you picture every morning when I get up and every night before I fall asleep with your Big Smile and your arm waving. I know that you are still Smiling and Waving and listening to everyone. I feel you in my Heart everyday. And it is a Great feeling. Well I know that we will all be together one day and I am looking forward to that day when we can hang out together again.

 

So until that day comes you need to help out down here. and give everyone up there a Big Kiss and Hug for me.

Hi Gail,

I just wanted to say hello I have been thinking about you all weekend. I miss you alot especially at the party's. I am going to have pizza and cake for Gabby's 5th Birthday and I know for sure you would have made it and brought all of the kids. I know that you are watching and that you are reading all of the things that  everyone is writting you. It looks like there are a few people that need your help so I think you are going to have to push a little harder for them and get them the help that they need.

 

I will be going to Canada within the next three weeks. I was going to take Gabby as Margaret has to work but now you need a passport to cross over. So Margaret is going on Wednesday to apply for one for her and Gabby. So I will take Gabby in July and than her and Margaret in November when she has vacation. Gae is having surgery on her eyes so I told her I would come and help out with Brigitte.

 

I don't get to see my brother too often even though he works right by me. I am going to try to get out there soon to see how he is doing. Just knowing that he is there with Kelly helps alot. And with the rest of your kids being there with him a lot I know he is always in good hands. Now if you can just get him to show up in some of the family functions that would help alot.

 

I know you always told me that it was you who pushed all the time to get him there so can you try pushing a little harder ha-ha. We do miss seeing him. Well my friend I have to go now but we will talk again soon. Love and miss you lots and lots.

                                  HAPPY EASTER

 

  Just thinking about you and hoping you are enjoying the holiest of all days in heaven. I know you had an incredible faith while here with us, so I can only imagine how wonderful it is for you to be so close to the lord on this holiday.

   Cant help but think about how much you loved the holidays and all you did to make them special. Your absence is so overwhelming and impossible not to think about. It is something you cant explain, its not only an emotional pain but a physical pain way deep down in your gut.  The longing and the pain never ends. I think we just put it somewhere private and go on because we have to.

     Just know that we carry the love we have for all of you with us everywhere, everyday. It will never die, its forever. Seeing you all again someday is what keeps us going. That is the prize at the end of this life. Its a weird feeling because you dont want to leave the people you love here but you look forward to being reunited with all the people you love that have gone.

      Accepting that you are still here only in a different form is difficult. You will always be with us through your kids and grandkids. I can see part of you in all of them. It might be a smile or a certain way of saying something, an action or just a look in their eyes. You did good Gail Malone, they are wonderful people with big hearts like you. Your entire family smiles and laughs to make everyone comfortable but their underlying sadness is always present. Help if you can to ease their pain and help them to know that you are okay.

      Please tell everyone that I love them. I am sure your table for Easter will be full. Enjoy!!  I wish you peace and joy on this holiday. Miss and love you always.

   

Hi Gail,

Happy Saint Patricks Day my Friend. I know that you are up there Celebrating with everyone including St. Patrick.  I would love to be sitting in a Pub having lunch with you. Just eatting and talking I miss talking to you so much.

 

I know that you were there on Saturday helping my brother blow out the candles on the cake. I was thinking about you the whole night which you know as the last time that I was at Rosa's and Eddies for for Kayla's Birthday and of course you were there. It was really nice but never the same without you there. A party is just not a party without you.

 

They did do a Great job though and it was nice seeing everyone. I could see the smile on your face knowing that the whole family was together. As that is what you always wanted.

 

I know that they say that Heaven is a Beautiful place to be in no pains and you get to be with all of the people you love eventuly. So I know since there is no pain you will have everyone upthere dancing. Please wish everyone a Happy St. Patricks Day for me and give them all a hug and kiss from me. I am sending you a Big Hug and Kiss from me.

 

I will talk to you soon. Love and miss you lots!

Hi Gail,

I am sitting at my desk and thinking about you and wishing that you were here. I miss talking to you so much. Thank God I can always see you in front of me with that Big smile. Tomorrow will be the party for Eddie's 60th I know that you will be there to help him blow out the candles. Everyone misses you so much I know you can see us all. I know you want everyone to get on with their lives. I guess than you should not have been such a Great person.

You can see by this site that after more than 6 months everyone is still writing on it. Once you touched someones heart you are there forever. I was thinking about Easter coming and how you loved spending it with the Grandkids easter egg hunting. The patience that you had with everyone. That is one of the reasons everyone loves you so much.

I know you will be there tomorrow as I can feel you here today it is a Great feeling thanks for hanging around. You can give everyone a hug and kiss for me up there. I know that one day we will all be together again. And until than you will watch over all of us.

So until that day my Friend just remember that I love and miss you lots. So many people do. So help everyone get through all of these Holidays and Birthdays. I will talk to you real soon thanks for always listening.

Love you!